Happy Holidays

I was thinking today about the debate on whether to say Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays and it really started to annoy me, I mean why can't we just say Merry Christmas and go on about our day, I mean is it really offensive to those who don't celebrate XMas?? Also , I find people who don't want there kids to believe in Santa b/c its lying to their kids, annoying, I mean please! Don't get me wrong, I strongly believe that Santa should not be the focus of Christmas but lying to your kids, really! I sometimes think its hard to connect with other Christian women because sometimes I just want to be like, COME ON!! Be Real with me! I know you don't always think like your portraying yourself!! WEll, its looks like someone needed to vent!!