Thursday, October 18, 2018

Settling in

We have lived in Rochester for a little over two months now. It is strange because it feels like so much longer to me. Overall we are doing well. The kids have settled in to school routines. Matthew and Caroline have early wake up calls as their bus comes at 6:45a.m! Ellie has a more leisurely routine as her bus comes at 8:30.  Matthew's hockey season is in full swing. He is slowly but surely finding his way, and his voice. It is interesting to see what makes that boy speak up. I continue to be so proud of that kid. He's a sweetie. Caroline was blessed to have a friend from her elementary school also move here this summer. Thankfully they go to the same school. Caroline is much like me and is outgoing and has made friends easily. She has also taken an interest in the youth group at the church we've attended. Ellie is taking a lyrical dance class that she absolutely loves and is going to be in her first play, "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" this winter. Perhaps the  biggest news is I have found a new job. I am working as a bereavement coordinator for a local hospice agency. While it is very different from inpatient medical social work, I am really enjoying it. I have been able to work with groups and individuals and have been challenged by honing new skills. It is interesting being on the other side of things. In my previous job I was helping individuals come to terms with their chronic, and life limiting illness. In this role, I am helping family members come to terms with their losses. My job is flexible which is a huge blessing as well as we are all transitioning to our new surroundings. 
I am over apartment living! I thought it would offer more. There are benefits to not having to worry about things breaking down, etc. But, I miss having more space. It often feels that we are all on top of each other.  I am also over the neighbor's propensity towards late night thumping music sessions! I think, when we have a house again, that we will all appreciate having our "corners". Jeff and I were looking for a bit at houses to buy as the market as cooled a bit and it is a great time to buy. Ultimately we decided to wait until late winter/early spring to buy. We plan on paying off more debt and hopefully finding a great place to make our home. I miss many of the friendships we had in Portage but feel completely  at peace here in Rochester. Once again, I feel that God has blessed me with a job that is perfect for me and His timing could not have been more perfect. Although I "want" a house right now, I am proud of myself for putting my own selfish desires aside for the greater good! 
I am feeling more at peace and settled here in this place more than I have in years. I am excited to see what we have ahead!